nice topic, very educative, i trust your program ,keep it up aunty ayo
DeoR Fon December 1, 2021 at 9:46 pm
I can assure you. A Woman will never misbehave without a reason. Maybe 10% of women, but most women will not mess up except she had been hurt or disrespected by men.
Michael Pon December 1, 2021 at 9:51 pm
The system here is the enemy, not the black man or women. The system here turn women into feminists and that;s a problem in marriages, cause of that there are too many single ^ divorced women with kids. The system over here makes it mandatory for both husband and wife to go out to work full time and it causes stress. Men are naturally bread winners and women are nurturers, but at times the western system beats up black men so hard that they sometimes struggle to keep up with manly responsibilities, and when this happens most women will take advantage and feel they are equal to men…and should not respect them as leaders in the house.,,,that’s where the main problem comes from. I know there are a few wicked and irresponsible men out there that take advantage of women for their own selfish gain, but these cases should treated in isolation. Some African culture should not be thrown away when you live abroad……but some culture are good to achieve marriage success when abroad. A good man or woman is easy to know….you just need to watch their actions, not what they say.
Christie Alukoon December 1, 2021 at 9:57 pm
The wife should make sure there is soup in the house. Have a big pot of soup – stew and egusi soup in the fridge that will last for 1 week. So if the husband comes back home, he better make his pounder yam on the stove or make his eba or amala. If not, he will be very sorry. When I come back home I will feed my children only and will be gone to bed. Period.
Christie Alukoon December 1, 2021 at 10:02 pm
When a wife doesn’t respect the husband is because the man is not responsible financially in the home. Imagine where the wife pays all the bills of the home -mortgage, light bills, car note, food, children’s upkeep, etc and the man is always saying that he doesn’t have any money. The wife has a salary income working as an xray tech but the husband drives the cab. He cannot even pay just light bill but will send his money to Nigeria. . How do u expect the wife to respect him.
nice topic, very educative, i trust your program ,keep it up aunty ayo
I can assure you. A Woman will never misbehave without a reason. Maybe 10% of women, but most women will not mess up except she had been hurt or disrespected by men.
The system here is the enemy, not the black man or women. The system here turn women into feminists and that;s a problem in marriages, cause of that there are too many single ^ divorced women with kids. The system over here makes it mandatory for both husband and wife to go out to work full time and it causes stress. Men are naturally bread winners and women are nurturers, but at times the western system beats up black men so hard that they sometimes struggle to keep up with manly responsibilities, and when this happens most women will take advantage and feel they are equal to men…and should not respect them as leaders in the house.,,,that’s where the main problem comes from. I know there are a few wicked and irresponsible men out there that take advantage of women for their own selfish gain, but these cases should treated in isolation. Some African culture should not be thrown away when you live abroad……but some culture are good to achieve marriage success when abroad. A good man or woman is easy to know….you just need to watch their actions, not what they say.
The wife should make sure there is soup in the house. Have a big pot of soup – stew and egusi soup in the fridge that will last for 1 week. So if the husband comes back home, he better make his pounder yam on the stove or make his eba or amala. If not, he will be very sorry. When I come back home I will feed my children only and will be gone to bed. Period.
When a wife doesn’t respect the husband is because the man is not responsible financially in the home. Imagine where the wife pays all the bills of the home -mortgage, light bills, car note, food, children’s upkeep, etc and the man is always saying that he doesn’t have any money. The wife has a salary income working as an xray tech but the husband drives the cab. He cannot even pay just light bill but will send his money to Nigeria. . How do u expect the wife to respect him.